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Your athlete already has a coach. They already have fans. What they need from YOU is something different. Coach Trav breaks down how to avoid becoming an "additional coach" or "extra fan" to your own child.In this episode of The Mental Health Playbook, host Coach Trav (Mario Hines) opens with an MPP Spotlight on former Kentucky national champion and #2 overall NBA draft pick Michael Kidd-Gilchrist — whose journey from struggling with a stutter to founding an organization that changed state and federal legislation on speech therapy access is a powerful reminder that our hardest struggles can become our greatest purpose.From there, Coach Trav turns the episode over to parents. Inspired by a recent trip to a sports moms' conference and a reflective phone call with his own mom about his freshman move-in day, he unpacks one of the most common (and best-intentioned) mistakes parents make once their athlete heads off to college: blurring the line between being a parent, an additional coach, and an extra fan. Drawing on his own experience as a college athlete who struggled in silence, and his years coaching and training young athletes, Coach Trav lays out a practical playbook for building real, judgment-free communication with your child — before adversity hits, not after.Topics covered in this episode: MPP Spotlight: Michael Kidd-Gilchrist's journey from stuttering in silence to national stuttering advocacy Why "I'm good" often isn't the whole story when your athlete calls home The difference between being a parent, a coach, and a fan — and why athletes need only one of those from you How to create a judgment-free space for your child to open up about struggles, on and off the field Why the relationship you build before college matters more than the conversation you have during a crisis Real talk on the pressures of playing time, injuries, homesickness, and public scrutiny (with a LeBron James example) Coach Trav's Mental Health Playbook journal prompt of the dayWhether you're a sports parent gearing up to send your athlete off to college, a coach who works closely with families, or a former college athlete reflecting on your own experience, this episode offers real, actionable insight on how to show up for the people you love most — without accidentally becoming one more voice evaluating their performance.New episodes of The Mental Health Playbook drop weekly. Subscribe so you don't miss the next conversation on pressure, preparation, and the mental side of competing at a high level.00:00 – MPP Spotlight: Michael Kidd-Gilchrist's Stuttering Advocacy 01:37 – Welcome & Mental Health Check-In 03:22 – Reflecting on Freshman Move-In Day & the Sports Moms Conference 05:14 – The Recruiting Process vs. the Reality of Campus Life 06:48 – When an Athlete's Love for the Game Gets Challenged 08:35 – "I'm Good": Why Kids Hide What They're Really Feeling 10:37 – The Mistake of Becoming an "Additional Coach" 12:41 – Creating a Judgment-Free Space to Talk 14:41 – The Pressure of Being Great (LeBron James Example) 16:37 – Building the Relationship Before It's Needed 18:45 – Coach Trav's Own Story: Learning to Open Up 20:44 – What Parents Provide That Coaches and Trainers Can't 22:38 – The Playbook: Build the Space Before It's Needed 24:40 – Creating a Judgment-Free Zone in Tough Moments 27:06 – Handling the Comedown After Public Success 28:55 – Support, Not Another Coach or Fan 31:03 – Mental Health Playbook Prompt of the Day: Favorite Holiday Traditions 32:49 – Closing Playbook: Creating Space Before It's Needed 35:03 – Let Coaches Coach, Let Fans Be Fans 37:10 – Outro & Subscribe